[ Izou may be jumping up in anger, but McGillis is lazing pretty cozily on his bed right now, propped up against the wall with his legs stretches out in front of him. You're not making him rise to meet your aggression, it's too comfortable.

He almost looks like he's enjoying this. ]

It's not a matter of deserving, is it? The only way you can control how others respond to you is by changing yourself. Make yourself indispensable.